Analyzing Conversations

STEP 1

Notice how he talks to you. The way he talks to you can say a lot about his real feelings for you. The next time you hang out, pay attention to his tone and the level of attention he gives you when you speak. Here are some ways to see if he likes you just based on how you talk to each other:

• See if he makes eye contact. Is he giving you his full attention, or looking around the room for something better to do? Is he breaking eye contact occasionally but smiling because he feels shy around you?
• See if he's giving you his full attention when he talks to you. Is he checking his phone and stopping to talk to other people? If so, then he may not be trying to impress you. But if he talks to you like you're the only person in the world, then he may have a big crush on you.
• See if he tries to impress you. Does he tell stories that make him look macho, funny, or adventurous? If so, then he probably wants to catch your eye.
• See if he talks more softly when he’s around you. This may be his way of telling you to lean in so you get closer.