STEP 3

See how he talks about other girls. If he talks to you about other girls, it'll be for one of two reasons. Either he likes you and wants to make you jealous, or he just sees you as a friend and wants your advice. Here's how to find out what it means when he tells you about other ladies:

• If he's always complaining about women he's dating or says, "None of them are what I'm looking for," then he may be hinting that you're the one.
• If he always asks you for romantic advice no matter who he's dating, then he may see you as a friend. If he says that you give the best advice, he may not be looking at you as more than a friend.
• If he's always talking about his latest conquest but not asking for advice, he could just be showing off to win you over. But be careful -- you don't want to end up being just another number in his little black book.
• If he ever compares a girl to you unfavorably by saying something like, “She’s cool, but she’s not nearly as funny as you,” then he’s telling you he’d rather be dating you instead.